What's your Cicum-Stance

I've run into a lot of people lately who let their attitude be dictated by their circumstances. They let the issues and problems they face dictate how they react, how they think, and how they perceive themselves. Recently, I was counseling an individual about some of the issues that they were facing and it was sad. This person's attitude was killing them, mostly because they had developed a defeated mindset and all they could think about the problems they were facing. One of my favorite books i've been reading has been describing this exact mindset and it was so cool to see myself have a positive mindset and try to encourage this person. It also was super horrible to see this mindset in action and that it was holding this person back from becoming the person they needed to be. If you want your best life now, then don't let your mindset be the judge of your future. Decide to be better, decide to make a change.